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Today is my birthday. I don’t usually celebrate it with a lot of people, just one special friend and then with family. But today I can’t have any of that. My family is stuck in a country in war so I can’t visit them just for the weekend. My friend is close, just a few hours by train, but she is in such depressed state that she can’t celebrate or just be there for me. I was understanding for more than 5 month now&#8230; For some reason I feel extremely lonely especially on my birthday… 
Moreover, I had a job interview which didn’t go so well. They think I’m not motivated enough to work for them. How can I be motivated to do anything when my country is in war, all my future plans are wrecked and I literally have no idea what will happen to my life in two month, not even two years!

It&#8217;s frustrating when you always give, give, give but never receive anything in return unless they need something from you. What&#8217;s even worse is that severing these ties hurts more than it should. But I know it&#8217;s for the best.

I got sick again. No strength to do anything, stupid running nose. And more than that, I have a super important interview at the end of this week for which I have to prepare an article discussion and a presentation about my project. I have no body power to read or study and I feel like I will lose this opportunity. 
On top of that, I have to mentally help my best friend because I know she struggles a lot now and I have to be there for her. But I really need someone to be there for me too&#8230;

Mentally exhausted, and I have been for a while&#8230; What is particularly bad lately is that it is going tobe my birthday in a few days and I don&#8217;t even feel like celebrating it nor can I do it because I do not have many friends where I live at the moment&#8230; 
My parents are pressuring me to know what I would like as a present but I have no idea&#8230; Everything I would eventually like is way to expensive (a house, a holiday in Japan&#8230;) and I already feel like I have not enough time to enjoy what I already have, why should I want something else ?
Anyway, the real problem here is that birthday should make you happy but mine just makes me realize how alone and lost I am. 
Anyone else felt like that before ?
I wish a nice day to you all

How can some people manage to send you to hell, ghost you for one full year, then message you again like nothing happened? How? Is there anyone around here who does the same? What is the logic?&#8230;&#8230;.. I surely can reply with small talk, and maybe go for a drink sometimes because the person is witty and we share common and rare interests, but it will never be the friendship we had. And if I was such a horrible person, why look for me again? (((And now the predictable bit of info: male, platonic friend))).

I like sharing food with people. I like trying other peoples food. With my own fork. With my own spoon. From my own glass. 
I hate when people drink form my bottle or when they eat with my utilities. 
And the most awful part is that I can never refuse them! I’m always too scared to offend anyone. So stupid!

I feel like I’m a very bad friend. I don’t have lots of friends, usually I have one special person and we do almost everything together. But time goes, we grow apart, that’s normal. And still I can’t not feel sad when they are doing things we promised to do together. I feel deceived and I feel bad. Maybe it’s better not to be close to anyone as everything ends the same.

I’m having one of these days where I can’t find the point of living, I don’t know what I am doing, I don’t know what’s the point. 
Plus I’m feeling so lonely, my friend doesn’t know that I’m alive if I don’t send them a message and it’s really sad

Today I feel proud of myself. I&#8217;ve tried the no contact method with my narcissistic friend, and it has worked. No more messages asking me to change my FB profile picture, no more 1 hour call to tell me about his fantastic friends and fantastic hobbies, no more that imposing presence trying to control my life. I am free and finally happy again.

Basically the guy I like, who I know likes me back but situations mean can&#8217;t be together has just completely ghosted me and it&#8217;s not the first time he&#8217;s done it either. 
I&#8217;m going through some heavy health stuff and his support has been amazing so far but this. 
It really really is heavy on my heart

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