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Frustrated&#8230;because I need to get working on my next steps in my career and I can&#8217;t stop procrastinating. My husb doesn&#8217;t understand me at all and instead of motivating me he tells me to get started and not act so lazy. I feel I constantly have to defend myself. I feel insecure and an scared to fail since its been a while I was working professionally. I feel my workingfield has evolved so much that I don&#8217;t know anything anymore. On the other hand I know it is me who needs to get into action mode.

How can I handle my feelings of anger, sadness and find some relaxation. Is it ok to feel that way or is it an energy leak

I think my boyfriend wants to break up. The beginning of the relationship was great, he was clear that he wanted me, did not play games, was the sweetest but not in a love bombing way. After 2 months, he lost his job, and he&#8217;s been gradually isolating himself. I think his depression was here before and had never really been cured. We were apart for 2 weeks due to previously planned trips, we were texting every day, not calling unfortunately and it has been sparse in the past few days. He had a temporary physical injury but told me that once he&#8217;s feeling better he&#8217;d like to meet to talk about us. I don&#8217;t know what to reply to this. It looks like he&#8217;s feeling overwhelmed and he feels he can&#8217;t step up to be a good boyfriend. I did what I could to support him but I think it just feeds into it

I&#8217;m a 35yo straight woman. I like sex and am recently back in the dating scene after a couple of years single after 5 year relationship (and a kid together). 
I&#8217;m finding that in spite of being really turned on and into the guy I&#8217;m seeing, I&#8217;m kind of repulsed by his penis. I also have hooked up with other guys and it&#8217;s the same. I enjoy the sex, but dread when they ask for a blowjob. I don&#8217;t find vaginas attractive either.
The guy I&#8217;m dating does really turn me on (though I&#8217;ve always struggled to orgasm in the presence of someone else, which is another issue altogether) on a physical, psychological and spiritual level.
The sex with my ex was always terrible. Our sexual intimacy faded after 6months. I don&#8217;t want to repeat this pattern again.

I went on two dates with this guy. First date was amazing but the second one was pretty dry. And after the second date, he updated his hinge profile

I feel like an loser and incredibly lonely.

I don’t if I want to date anymore. It is so frustrating but I don’t want to be alone the rest of my life.

I have been on a break ever since i had kids.its been 4 years .i have moved to a new country in between.I have been trying to restart my career for past 2 years with no luck. I was also a punching bag between the severing relationship between my partner and his family. I have come to a point where i cant take it any more.I have started saying no to any more act of pushing me down further. I have started therapy but i am so scared of everything and everyone. I feel anxiety helplessness and the weight of emotion is so high. I dont know how i pass days feeling so hopeless. My partner n i am together without feeling anything. I tried therapy but it isnt sorting me out.

I think I might be too fond of, if not in love, with someone who is prohibited for me. I am seeing this person but can loose my job, my life as I know it, my friends if anyone ever get to know about it. I want to end it but he says he lives me and I can&#8217;t resist him.. 
It makes me depressed going outside of &#8220;the rulebook&#8221; and having none to talk to about it.

Today I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m feeling. I feel a mix of negatives emotions. My boyfriend smokes a lot and I don&#8217;t like it. I don&#8217;t like the smell and I&#8217;ve always been careful to don&#8217;t be around people that smoke. But&#8230; I love this man. He is my person. We love each other and we have plans together. We want to spend our life together and I really care about it. 
The only problem is the cigarette. I&#8217;ve tried several times to discuss with him about it. I tried to persuade him to stop (not immediately maybe in the future), but I think he will never stop. This makes me very sad. 
I don&#8217;t want to loose him because of a future cancer. I&#8217;ve already seen my dad dying in front of me because of this and It was very hard for me. 
I don&#8217;t know what to do or what to say anymore

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