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It’s been a month and 20 days since I decided to cut ties with him. Over time, I’ve realized he doesn’t care at all. I stopped replying to his messages, and instead of trying to fix things, he blocked me.
I can’t help but wonder—did he ever truly like me, or was I just fooling myself? His mixed signals and efforts make me think I made the right decision. Yet, a small part of me still hopes he’ll come back, even though I don’t want to face the same heartbreak again.
I read something online that said, “The reason it is taking you so long to heal is because you are doing it correctly. You are not looking for someone to fill the void. You feel lonely; you have no one, but you choose to heal correctly, and that says a lot about you.” 
I guess I&#8217;m doing okay. 🙁

I failed at a thing we call life.

This year I made the best friends I could ever hope to make in my 30s, I came out of my shell; I got promoted and won a bunch of industry awards; I became a fully-fledged financially-stable homeowner; I still love myself even though I gained a stone and my skin looks awful right now&#8230; the one thing that&#8217;s gotten me down is losing my &#8220;situationship&#8221;/friend. He&#8217;s a PoS. I asked if he was seeing someone and he couldn&#8217;t say yes or no (obvs a yes), I told him to leave, and I&#8217;ve spend weeks begging him to come back. He&#8217;s read the messages and has still chosen to ignore me&#8230; he was the man of my dreams, but I&#8217;m more upset about losing the friendship. I don&#8217;t have anyone who understands me like he did&#8230; I hope he comes back but, let&#8217;s see where we are next year.

It’s been four weeks since I decided to stop talking to him, and now I’m feeling a bit better—okay and starting to move on. A part of me senses he might come back, but if he does, I hope it’s for the best. If not, then for the love of God, I pray he stays away.

What should I do now? I’ve decided to go no contact, but he’s been messaging me once a week asking how I’m doing. Should I reply, or should I continue moving forward&#8230;?

I’m feeling really confused right now. It seems like my job is cutting back my hours, and I recently ended a situationship without saying goodbye. Now, I’m in a new situationship, but it feels unpredictable—hot and cold all at once. On top of that, my salary isn’t enough to cover my debt, and I’m struggling to get by each day.

A week has passed since I uncovered the truth about our situationship, and now he’s reaching out as if nothing ever happened. It feels so unfair that he can move on so easily while I’m left here feeling empty and depressed. I truly hope I can stay strong and not respond to him because he doesn’t deserve an explanation for my silence. I wish him peace, but more than anything, I hope I find my own peace too.

Aujourd&#8217;hui je me sens épuisé&#8230;les commands de chez le clerc qui ne sont pas ergonomiques&#8230; et d&#8217;autres sites commerciaux Cela fatigue et on perd beaucoup de temps

I’m feeling more exhausted than sad right now. Imagine this: someone you’ve been seeing for a long time says they don’t want a relationship, only for you to find out they’re now in one with someone else. On top of that, being called fat by your date and even your own mom, it&#8217;s just so overwhelming. I can’t even put into words how I’m supposed to feel anymore.

Frustrated&#8230;because I need to get working on my next steps in my career and I can&#8217;t stop procrastinating. My husb doesn&#8217;t understand me at all and instead of motivating me he tells me to get started and not act so lazy. I feel I constantly have to defend myself. I feel insecure and an scared to fail since its been a while I was working professionally. I feel my workingfield has evolved so much that I don&#8217;t know anything anymore. On the other hand I know it is me who needs to get into action mode.

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