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I’m a lesbian and I worry how my family and friends might perceive it. And to avoid judgement I keep choosing dating with males.

I&#8217;ve met a man online and we had voice conversations every day and talked for hours for about a month. Then he stopped messaging me. He said he&#8217;s not feeling social at the moment and It has nothing to do with me, but weeks have passed and I really miss talking to him and getting &#8216;good morning&#8217; text messages every morning. I miss the friendship, but I&#8217;m not going to force anything. I&#8217;m so tired of people ghosting me and disappearing. Is this how things work these days? Or is there something wrong with me? How do I make friends or find a relationship? I&#8217;m tired of being completely alone.

I&#8217;ve failed at my job, have been unemployed for 6 years and struggling to find work. I&#8217;ve failed at every relationship and I&#8217;ve been completely alone for many years (no friends or family). I&#8217;m really struggling on my own and don&#8217;t know how to go on. How do I find the strength when there is only failure? I have so much to give but no one wants me. I&#8217;m also struggling with depression and who wants to deal with that? I have no one to talk to or to ask for help. Any words of encouragement or tips?

Ever since my son was born I wanted to have another kid, but my husband always refused. I&#8217;m turning 50 today, so the chances are almost inexistent. I&#8217;ve decided I&#8217;m divorcing my husband, but that won&#8217;t give me back the years I&#8217;ve lost, and i can&#8217;t stop thinking I should have never married him.

Every single day, no matter how hard I try—keeping myself busy, distracting myself—there’s always a moment when you slip into my mind. And the worst part? You still visit me in my dreams. In those dreams, you’re happy—so happy—with someone else. And I wake up shattered, drowning in the fear that you’ve moved on, that you’ve found love again, and that I was never enough. It makes me feel worthless, like I never mattered, like I was just a passing moment in your life. It’s destroying me in ways I can’t even put into words. I’m stuck between wanting to let go and still desperately holding on. Do you ever think of me? Was I really that easy to forget? Was I never enough for you? Was I never even worth loving?

I&#8217;m doing okay, but not really okay. Every day feels emptier without you, and I don’t know how to fill the space you left. I want to text you, to tell you how much I miss you, but my mind keeps stopping me—maybe because I know you won’t say what I need to hear. So I just sit with the ache, carrying words I’ll never send.

I feel so confused- I receive so many compliments from my workplace and my friends, it seems that people really value me and appreciate my effort and personality, but for whatever reason, I never feel like it&#8217;s enough. I still feel so unloved and lonely. It doesn&#8217;t make any logical sense, but I can&#8217;t stop feeling so useless and unlovable. It feels like a silly thing to struggle with, but it&#8217;s very real for me

I cant stop thinking about my ex and its been 2 months of break up. It keeps replaying in my head all the good and bad things happened. All I know is that I miss him so much.

It’s been a month and 20 days since I decided to cut ties with him. Over time, I’ve realized he doesn’t care at all. I stopped replying to his messages, and instead of trying to fix things, he blocked me.
I can’t help but wonder—did he ever truly like me, or was I just fooling myself? His mixed signals and efforts make me think I made the right decision. Yet, a small part of me still hopes he’ll come back, even though I don’t want to face the same heartbreak again.
I read something online that said, “The reason it is taking you so long to heal is because you are doing it correctly. You are not looking for someone to fill the void. You feel lonely; you have no one, but you choose to heal correctly, and that says a lot about you.” 
I guess I&#8217;m doing okay. 🙁

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