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I’m a lesbian and I worry how my family and friends might perceive it. And to avoid judgement I keep choosing dating with males.

I&#8217;ve met a man online and we had voice conversations every day and talked for hours for about a month. Then he stopped messaging me. He said he&#8217;s not feeling social at the moment and It has nothing to do with me, but weeks have passed and I really miss talking to him and getting &#8216;good morning&#8217; text messages every morning. I miss the friendship, but I&#8217;m not going to force anything. I&#8217;m so tired of people ghosting me and disappearing. Is this how things work these days? Or is there something wrong with me? How do I make friends or find a relationship? I&#8217;m tired of being completely alone.

I&#8217;ve failed at my job, have been unemployed for 6 years and struggling to find work. I&#8217;ve failed at every relationship and I&#8217;ve been completely alone for many years (no friends or family). I&#8217;m really struggling on my own and don&#8217;t know how to go on. How do I find the strength when there is only failure? I have so much to give but no one wants me. I&#8217;m also struggling with depression and who wants to deal with that? I have no one to talk to or to ask for help. Any words of encouragement or tips?

I miss feeling like I belong somewhere.

I moved into my house almost 7yrs ago. I have been scared to use the bath/shower the whole time — I&#8217;ve been strip washing in a plastic bowl or taking full advantage when I stay in hotels.
I&#8217;ve been scared because I have a horrible fear of spiders in the bath, and also my ceiling is cracked and I&#8217;m paro of things coming out of it.
Tonight I used it anyway and I feel really good right now! I smell amazing, my skin is very soft, my tattoos look great. I&#8217;ve even treated myself to a foot mask!
Hopefully I can keep it up. I&#8217;ve been pretty depressed lately, feeling unloved and lonely, and while I&#8217;ve still been getting on with stuff and taking care of myself omg&#8230; really this is the best act of self-care I&#8217;ve done in a while.

I need a day off of everything: work, house, family&#8230;Lately I&#8217;ve been thinking of asking for a day off at work, booking a room in a hotel near the office and spend the day there, sleeping, watching tv, taking a long bath while having a glass of wine..Then, at the time hubby comes to pick me up at the office, acting as if I had been working all day as usual. Should I do it?

Ever since my son was born I wanted to have another kid, but my husband always refused. I&#8217;m turning 50 today, so the chances are almost inexistent. I&#8217;ve decided I&#8217;m divorcing my husband, but that won&#8217;t give me back the years I&#8217;ve lost, and i can&#8217;t stop thinking I should have never married him.

My regular gynecologist retired and the ones I tried after that were too fough and hurt me. Add a difficult time at home and the pandemic and here I am, no gynecological checkup in over 10 years. 
I have discovered a lump in my armpit and I am afraid. 
I want to believe that it is an inflamed lymph node because I have recently gone through some pretty bad bronchitis. 
But what if it is something more serious? 
I have an appoinment next week&#8230;.

I don&#8217;t know what to do of my life anymore. I don&#8217;t know where to go. No money. No dreams. No ambitions anymore. No hope

Every single day, no matter how hard I try—keeping myself busy, distracting myself—there’s always a moment when you slip into my mind. And the worst part? You still visit me in my dreams. In those dreams, you’re happy—so happy—with someone else. And I wake up shattered, drowning in the fear that you’ve moved on, that you’ve found love again, and that I was never enough. It makes me feel worthless, like I never mattered, like I was just a passing moment in your life. It’s destroying me in ways I can’t even put into words. I’m stuck between wanting to let go and still desperately holding on. Do you ever think of me? Was I really that easy to forget? Was I never enough for you? Was I never even worth loving?

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