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I hate my job but being unemployed scares the heck out of me. It is so wrong that we have to live in suffering just to be able to pay rent or buy groceries. I honestly wish I was born into rich family and never experienced this. Yes, it is selfish and stupid but that is the truth. There is no pride in fighting your way up. It is just a fucked up system and a fucked up society.

Is it normal to feel insecure about everything? 
I&#8217;ve never felt like this before&#8230;

Today&#8230; Is a bad day 
I wasn&#8217;t good at work. I&#8217;m tired. I feel exhausted. 
I don&#8217;t like the job I&#8217;ve just started but at the end of the day I need money to pay my bills and my food ( it&#8217;s not even enough to cover everything). 
My dream job is slipping through my fingers every day more. Nobody wants to give me a chance. 
I&#8217;ve studied for it. I&#8217;m passionate about it, I love it and I can&#8217;t even have the job. 
I just need a chance to show what I&#8217;m capable of&#8230; 
Honestly&#8230; I don&#8217;t feel good in my skin anymore, I&#8217;m starting to feel insecure about everything

I am 30 years old and started to study psychology. I love it. But I am also working part time and it is very difficult to do both. I am so stressed and tired and I don&#8217;t know if it is worth it. It would take me 6 years to reach my goal. And I don&#8217;t know if I cant take this level of stress for 6 years even though I really love lerning and the courses I take. 
So I really don&#8217;t know if I should continue my studies or &#8220;give up&#8221;. 
If I give up I would still have a good job! But I could never work in my &#8220;dream job&#8221;. 
I just don&#8217;t know if my dream job or the way to it is worth all this terrible stress.

Life somehow feels too heavy lately

I have been unemployed for more than one year, it is a really tough situation for me. I never experience something like this before, as I already have years experience and also perform well in previous companies. And now I just can not find a job. After submitting 500+ applications, and interviewed 30+ companies, now I am questioning myself. And worse feeling is that many colleagues of mine switched job or find another roles already. It seems like everyone is moving forward with their life, and I am still struggleing&#8230; I just wanna know what went wrong with me&#8230;

Frustrated&#8230;because I need to get working on my next steps in my career and I can&#8217;t stop procrastinating. My husb doesn&#8217;t understand me at all and instead of motivating me he tells me to get started and not act so lazy. I feel I constantly have to defend myself. I feel insecure and an scared to fail since its been a while I was working professionally. I feel my workingfield has evolved so much that I don&#8217;t know anything anymore. On the other hand I know it is me who needs to get into action mode.

I have been sick for a week with a normal cold, but I didn&#8217;t do any work during that time. I feel so so guilty for it. Today is the day I&#8217;m going back to the office and I can&#8217;t even imagine how disappointed my boss will be. And instead of doing something I keep on spiralling on this guilt and procrastinate even more. Why is my brain like this&#8230;

How can I handle my feelings of anger, sadness and find some relaxation. Is it ok to feel that way or is it an energy leak

I think my boyfriend wants to break up. The beginning of the relationship was great, he was clear that he wanted me, did not play games, was the sweetest but not in a love bombing way. After 2 months, he lost his job, and he&#8217;s been gradually isolating himself. I think his depression was here before and had never really been cured. We were apart for 2 weeks due to previously planned trips, we were texting every day, not calling unfortunately and it has been sparse in the past few days. He had a temporary physical injury but told me that once he&#8217;s feeling better he&#8217;d like to meet to talk about us. I don&#8217;t know what to reply to this. It looks like he&#8217;s feeling overwhelmed and he feels he can&#8217;t step up to be a good boyfriend. I did what I could to support him but I think it just feeds into it

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