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I spend too much time on X and when I see men talk about women who are in their 30s with no kids being unwanted whores who know they don&#8217;t have what it takes to ever settle down and be a wife it makes me sad&#8230; do men really think like that? I just turned 33 and I&#8217;m child-free by choice. I&#8217;ve never wanted kids because I come from a broken, abusive household. I don&#8217;t think I know what a good parent is, and I wouldn&#8217;t be able to keep a chid away from the family who badly beat me. I also don&#8217;t want another human growing inside me, that&#8217;s always creeped me out. The pain and risk of childbirth? No thank you. And lastly the amount of money they cost. I&#8217;ve thought of becoming a donor though&#8230; but really&#8230; is that why I&#8217;m single? Do men think I&#8217;m for the streets cause I&#8217;m childless in my 30s?

I&#8217;ve failed at my job, have been unemployed for 6 years and struggling to find work. I&#8217;ve failed at every relationship and I&#8217;ve been completely alone for many years (no friends or family). I&#8217;m really struggling on my own and don&#8217;t know how to go on. How do I find the strength when there is only failure? I have so much to give but no one wants me. I&#8217;m also struggling with depression and who wants to deal with that? I have no one to talk to or to ask for help. Any words of encouragement or tips?

I need a day off of everything: work, house, family&#8230;Lately I&#8217;ve been thinking of asking for a day off at work, booking a room in a hotel near the office and spend the day there, sleeping, watching tv, taking a long bath while having a glass of wine..Then, at the time hubby comes to pick me up at the office, acting as if I had been working all day as usual. Should I do it?

Ever since my son was born I wanted to have another kid, but my husband always refused. I&#8217;m turning 50 today, so the chances are almost inexistent. I&#8217;ve decided I&#8217;m divorcing my husband, but that won&#8217;t give me back the years I&#8217;ve lost, and i can&#8217;t stop thinking I should have never married him.

I failed at a thing we call life.

I&#8217;ve started the year screaming at my mom about how I want to die. I punched a wall and came close to smashing my own head into it from the frustration. The emotional pain.
I&#8217;m 32, fully moved out and everything and she is staying in MY house. She&#8217;s got the flu, I&#8217;ve been looking after her, buying food, medication, vitamins all with my own money (because she has none. I am her financial AND emotional support.) &#8230;but whenever I spend more than a week with her I become that depressed 13yr old that she would beat the sh*t out of regularly&#8230;
This is why I can&#8217;t have a normal life. Why I can&#8217;t introduce potential partners to my family&#8230; I could have been in the pub with my best friends watching a band we love&#8230; but instead I&#8217;m depressed and crying in my room alone&#8230; Happy New Year! 🥂🍾

I’m feeling more exhausted than sad right now. Imagine this: someone you’ve been seeing for a long time says they don’t want a relationship, only for you to find out they’re now in one with someone else. On top of that, being called fat by your date and even your own mom, it&#8217;s just so overwhelming. I can’t even put into words how I’m supposed to feel anymore.

Stressed upset tired 
Because my daughter has been forced to live some were she&#8217;s really unhappy and doesn&#8217;t want to be. 
She has a personality disorder physical disability leg ulcers hoarder and violence and aggression. 
Also my husbands been in a major care accident his femur went in his pelvis and needs major surgery at 71. 
Really scared and worried about it all want be in work for six months or longer.

I feel like an loser and incredibly lonely.

I don&#8217;t like using the word &#8220;toxic&#8221;. However, I don&#8217;t have a better word. My family is quite toxic to say the least. After a very big argument yesterday where my dad accused me of not being able to do anything despite me being the one to run the household while looking after my mentally ill mother, I asked a dear friend of mine who has her own house (gifted to her by her mother) if I could stay with her for a couple of days (2 or 3 days). I offered to cook, clean and keep things tidy. She said &#8220;no&#8221;. I understand and respect her right to say &#8220;no&#8221;. That, however, doesn&#8217;t help the frustration that I feel. I feel like a trapped mouse. She knows how hard things have been for me so this hurts as well&#8230; Could someone please tell me in the comments how to move past this frustration? Thank you.

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