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Stressed upset tired 
Because my daughter has been forced to live some were she&#8217;s really unhappy and doesn&#8217;t want to be. 
She has a personality disorder physical disability leg ulcers hoarder and violence and aggression. 
Also my husbands been in a major care accident his femur went in his pelvis and needs major surgery at 71. 
Really scared and worried about it all want be in work for six months or longer.

I feel like an loser and incredibly lonely.

I don&#8217;t like using the word &#8220;toxic&#8221;. However, I don&#8217;t have a better word. My family is quite toxic to say the least. After a very big argument yesterday where my dad accused me of not being able to do anything despite me being the one to run the household while looking after my mentally ill mother, I asked a dear friend of mine who has her own house (gifted to her by her mother) if I could stay with her for a couple of days (2 or 3 days). I offered to cook, clean and keep things tidy. She said &#8220;no&#8221;. I understand and respect her right to say &#8220;no&#8221;. That, however, doesn&#8217;t help the frustration that I feel. I feel like a trapped mouse. She knows how hard things have been for me so this hurts as well&#8230; Could someone please tell me in the comments how to move past this frustration? Thank you.

Just wanted to share that I had a great birthday and received much more support than I could have imagined! Grateful for my friends and family 💛 Good days do happen, please don&#8217;t forget to believe !

I feel I am not valued by anybody. I am tired from being treated that way and don&#8217;t understand what am I doing wrong.

I&#8217;m currently studying to get into a master&#8217;s program abroad. I also greatly miss my boyfriend who lives in the country I wish to study and whom I haven&#8217;t physically seen since December 2023. I&#8217;m planning to go and see my boyfriend in October. My dad wishes to help me with my expenses for the master&#8217;s program and also for the trip. Despite that, though, he keeps implying that I shouldn&#8217;t go and spent this money, as if I get accepted in the program, I will have to move to that foreign country anyway&#8230; I want to go. However, I can also see my dad&#8217;s point and he&#8217;s right. I also miss my boyfriend and I crave a break from my very chaotic family life. I don&#8217;t know what to do&#8230;

Today I feel both sad and appreciative. My dad was so generous to gift me some money for my birthday. I caught a glimpse of his bank account. He has enough money but what made me sad was realizing that my mother has some money, too, and that sum could be more. My mother could put the money she stashes away together with dad&#8217;s so they could have more funds for investing, for instance. She is incredibly selfish. She just wants to keep her money and she doesn&#8217;t spend it nor invest it &#8212; which is like burning money. This is important because my dad has only a joint account with her. My mother&#8217;s stuff is her own and nobody can touch it that is why she has her own account, whereas dad&#8217;s money is for everybody to use. I&#8217;m so sorry for dad.

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