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I&#8217;m currently studying to get into a master&#8217;s program abroad. I also greatly miss my boyfriend who lives in the country I wish to study and whom I haven&#8217;t physically seen since December 2023. I&#8217;m planning to go and see my boyfriend in October. My dad wishes to help me with my expenses for the master&#8217;s program and also for the trip. Despite that, though, he keeps implying that I shouldn&#8217;t go and spent this money, as if I get accepted in the program, I will have to move to that foreign country anyway&#8230; I want to go. However, I can also see my dad&#8217;s point and he&#8217;s right. I also miss my boyfriend and I crave a break from my very chaotic family life. I don&#8217;t know what to do&#8230;

Today I feel both sad and appreciative. My dad was so generous to gift me some money for my birthday. I caught a glimpse of his bank account. He has enough money but what made me sad was realizing that my mother has some money, too, and that sum could be more. My mother could put the money she stashes away together with dad&#8217;s so they could have more funds for investing, for instance. She is incredibly selfish. She just wants to keep her money and she doesn&#8217;t spend it nor invest it &#8212; which is like burning money. This is important because my dad has only a joint account with her. My mother&#8217;s stuff is her own and nobody can touch it that is why she has her own account, whereas dad&#8217;s money is for everybody to use. I&#8217;m so sorry for dad.

I try to do my best and for my family is never the best, its just my duties, what I must do. But I wake up, I help my mum because is paraplegic, then I help my dad who has Alzheimer disease, then I prepare myself and I go to work. I work 8-9 hours in 2 different places as a researcher. Then I come back home and I put everything in the right place and keep the house fine. Then I prepare the dinner and the lunch for the next day. The I prepare my stuff and keep all the stuff of the house clean. Then 40 min of tv and then help again my parents to go to bed. Finally at around 23.00-23.30 I can go to bed. Then wake up at 6.30 and repeat all. 
I want a new life

I have 73 years old. But I want work more and in my country old people are not important&#8230;I was testcher, I doesn&#8217;t want only be with old people like me, I am volunteer with young pupils, now they are in vacancies&#8230;my family is not in my country&#8230;I feel alone

My husband started a therapy. I recognize the guy that I fell in love again🥰

Had to come on while I&#8217;m screaming inside don&#8217;t know if its hormones or ppl just getting on my nerves today. Everyone just expects anything they want when they need it and if i voice an opinion im the bad one it just does my head in how selfish people are and then play the victim when i say anything biggg sighhhh gonna pull out ninja moves soon🤨😐😅

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